The process of toilet training for children can sometimes be a challenging period for many parents. However, according to experts, starting when the child is ready and adopting the right methods can make this process easier and more successful.
Expert Psychologist Büşra Sel Cengiz shared signs of readiness and recommendations for parents regarding the toilet training process for children. Sel explains the signs of when a child is ready for toilet training and provides suggestions. Every child's growth process is different. Therefore, Sel says, "Parents can start toilet training based on their child's development after 18 months," and she explains her guiding suggestions:
"I advise my clients to bring the starting point to milestone moments. For example, when school opens, closes, on New Year's or after the child's birthday."
Psychologist Büşra Sel says, "There are some signs that a child is ready for toilet training. First and foremost, the child should be able to recognize the need to use the toilet and be aware of it. Additionally, the child's ability to express desires with simple words or gestures, staying dry for a few hours a day, and feeling uncomfortable with wet or dirty diapers are also signs of readiness," she said.
Regarding how to start toilet training, Sel stated, "Before starting toilet training, we must ensure that the child is physically and mentally ready. We should explain to the child how to use the toilet and help them understand in simple terms. Then, we can start the process by encouraging regular toilet visits at intervals."
Sel also provided information about maintaining motivation and situations where the training process becomes challenging: "Maintaining motivation is important. When the training process becomes challenging or the child's motivation drops, using positive approaches such as praise and appreciation can increase the child's motivation. However, sometimes the process can become so challenging that taking a break might be considered. However, when taking a break, make sure the child is still ready for toilet training and make an effort to keep the process from becoming prolonged."
Expert Psychologist Büşra Sel also addressed equipment that can be used during the training process, the concept of rewarding, and explained the differences between night and daytime toilet training.
"When starting toilet training, the primary goal is to achieve daytime dryness. Nighttime dryness may not be an immediately acquired skill. However, we do not recommend parents revert to diapers even at night. If a child returns to diapers, even if only at night, they may want to continue using diapers during the day, which can extend the process. Therefore, training pants and mattress protectors can be used both day and night. Additionally, periodically taking the child to the toilet every 2-3 hours during the night can prevent accidents."
Sel emphasized that the toilet training process is an important stage for parents and stated, "Approaching with patience and understanding will help your child navigate this period more easily."
The information provided by Expert Psychologist Büşra Sel serves as an important guide for parents who want to effectively navigate their child's toilet training process.
